Online or IRL
Dear Hortense,
I am conflicted about whether or not I should be online dating.
I've met mediocre people or have been ghosted hard, with blows to my confidence. I am active & out in the world, but have not met anyone there either. I am part open to trying again, but afraid it will set me back.
- Active & Out
Dear Active & Out,
You CAN manifest IRL - I did it twice during masked lockdown with this process. I met a boyfriend on a hike & met my now husband on a camping trip. For me, apps were an essential part of my ascension process. I use them as a portal for partners to come through & always wanted to stay open to it. I also & most importantly, used it as a tool to uplevel, unblock & pass tests. There are lots of ways to do this, from creating an authentic profile, to asking direct questions & setting clear boundaries. I did all of these things again & again & again & again on apps & in real life because I had a lot of self worth to build. Again, I met my husband in real life, which is what I was ultimately manifesting, but all those experiences I manifested on the apps, even some that were completely excruciating, were necessary cycles in the magick process so I could ascend to meet my husband.
xo
Hortense
