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Dear Hortense,

I have a childhood friend I connect with from time to time. We have always been close & sometimes flirty, but I have been blocked. We tried to make it happen last year & I panicked. We ran into each other again & he has a girlfriend of 5 months he is unsure about. We have hung out a few times since then, but he has not made a decision. I finally see that he is everything on my list & the reasons why I was so blocked about being with him before.

- Panicked


Dear Panicked,

If you are manifesting a partner, "available" should be on your list. This person is not available. I would not engage with him any further. This will show the universe you are serious about manifesting partnership & you will ascend from the transformative action of a boundary. You will not manifest your partner if you keep this energetic line open. Even if this person is your partner, you have to detach fully & let him figure out his wants without access to your energy. Also don't wait for the call (he will most likely call), move on. Quickly!

xo

Hortense

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