Long Distance Love
Dear Hortense,
I met the most amazing guy, but he lives SO far away! I'm on the west coast, he is in the Midwest. We both want to make it work, but I have no idea how that would even be feasible. Would love feedback!
- So Far Away
Dear So Far Away,
I met my husband in this process I was living in LA and he was in New England. I went & stayed with him for a week after meeting & then moved to be with him after two months. He & I were grown & manifesting partnership (I was 34 he was 39). We had each lived with people, dated & we were not trying to text & FaceTime for six months until society deemed it appropriate for us to partner. Our plan was to live together for six months & if we hated each other, we would separate & if we were still in love, we would get engaged. I am very supportive of being open to people who live outside our current areas, but “a long distance relationship” is not partnership.
If manifesting partnership is your top priority, you will be willing to go anywhere for that. In the digital world, you can create & have anything you want from any place, except for this person. They are in one place. If this is your partner, they you should be together. If not, it is a fantasy, distraction & time waster & you should let them go.
xo
Hortense
