Crickets…

Dear Hortense,

The last guy I dated was super intense, but quite quickly it turned out to be a trauma bond, so I painfully ended that after a month. That was 6 months ago & since then, nothing! Not even a kiss, or a drink with someone. On dating apps, no attractive men seem to match with me. In real life, I have not run into anyone interesting.

Why is my dating life so silent? And what can I do to get movement in this area?

- So Silent


Dear So Silent,

When our manifestations are stagnant it means you are out of step with your authenticity. I would suggest taking a deeper look at your authenticity through Human Design. How are you living out your authenticity in your daily existence? Is your dating profile authentic? Are you spending time in places & with people that are aligned to your authenticity? When I started living my life authentically, my husband just showed up in my life without all the struggle & effort I had put into dating, historically.

x

Hortense

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